Does Love still exist?

This is something that have being pondering my heart, that "Does Love still exist?".  Yeah, different people have there different opinion/view about this. If am to say it from my own perspective, I would say Love doesn't exist anymore probably -Based on relationship I have seen and have have personally experienced.

• Well, People now believe that men are scum/ women are scum. Why do they say things I like this. Some count love too be a joke. Some love there other partners based on what they want to get. I have had friends who date girls because they are have breasts or ass forgetting that everything has a repercussion. 

 What is love? 

An intensive feeling of deep affection.... Hmmmmmm..I can say this has a deep meaning which we need to take critical look at. What does mean to love?

1.Know that you focus on someone else's happiness, not just your own, when you are in love. Being in love is about connecting with another person emotionally, caring for their happiness as if it was your own. When you love someone their fate becomes intertwined with yours. You may feel sad when they cry, get angry when they are hurt, and celebrate with their successes.

2.Know that you do not need to share all the same interests to be in love. You do not have to like all of the same things in order to love someone. In many cases, having differences allows your love to grow, as you share and teach each other parts about yourself that the other person never knew. Disliking someone's taste in music, for example, does not mean that you cannot love them

3.Be yourself with the person you love and love them for being themselves as well. When you allow someone to be exactly as they are, without any belief that they aren’t good enough, without any belief that they would be “better” if they were different, you're in love. Loving someone is about accepting them as they are, loving them despite, or even because of, their faults. No one is perfect, but they don't have to be for you to love them

4.Know you may feel "addicted" to them when they aren't around. This is not just a turn of phrase: being in love actually changes your brain chemistry to "reward" you when they are in your life. If you are constantly thinking about them, missing them when they are gone, and finding ways to stay in contact with each other, love is likely blooming.

5.Know that loving someone doesn't mean you never fight. Love in the real world, contrary to movies and TV, is not eternal sunshine and rainbows. Even people deeply in love will fight and argue, from parents and children to happily married couples. However, loving someone is about appreciating them even when you disagree. Little arguments and fights don't push you apart, and you are able to work back to a common ground through careful communication. Even when you're angry or upset with them, you still love them, and these 

 6.Ask  yourself what love means to you. Everyone has different needs and wants in a relationship, and that leads everyone to a different definition of love. What do you need in a friend or lover? What do you offer? Have you ever felt like you were in love, and what did it feel like? can often make you closer.

7.Know that love takes time to develop. Love at first sight, though romantic, is not a real phenomenon. Attraction happens quickly, as does infatuation, but love takes time to develop. Love is based on an understanding of the other person emotionally and socially, and such an understanding cannot be rushed.

8.Remember that not all love is romantic. Love is not just about sexual attraction or romance. Most people will happily admit that they love their families and best friends. Love is based on a deep relationship, a connection that lets you know you can trust someone completely. You understand them and they understand you -- not perfectly, but enough that you feel invested in each other's lives and happiness.Thank you.

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